Got this from a friends post :)

PARANG KAYO PERO HINDI,

She is a 24-year old copywriter. He is an architect. They met and became
lovers in college. They broke up last year but remained to be "friends."

They send sweet text messages and he calls her often to make sure she's
okay. They still date. They still have sex.

They don't see anyone else. It is obvious that they still love each
other but when asked about their situation, she doesn't know the real
score. Even her friends are in the dark. "Parang sila, pero hindi."

She works in a telecom. He is reviewing for the board. They are in the
same barkada. They talk on the phone till 4 am. He gives her chocolates,
flowers and CDs even when there is no occasion. Their friends are
suspecting something. Bakit sila nagsosolo kapag may overnight inuman?
Why does he hold her close on the dance floor? Bakit sila magkaholding
hands lagi?Sila kaya?
"He hasn't admitted anything," she rants. "But I let him hug and kiss
me. Parang kami, pero hindi."

They work together in an ad agency. After office, they would watch
movie, have dinner and stroll at Glorietta. She gave him Harry Potter
books for his birthday in exchange for posing as her boyfriend to make an
ex jealous. They made out during the company outing in Subic and never
talked about it. He said "I love you" once but she wasn't sure if she
heard him correctly because they were both drunk then. But one thing she
is sure of is her feelings for him. She likes him. And she's assuming
that with what he's doing to her and with her, he likes her, too.
There's just one hitch: he has a girlfriend!

She is a 28-year-old virgin. He's a 35-year-old bachelor. Both
mountaineers, they became close during their climbs. After a few dates
in posh restaurants, he brings her to his condo where they would make
out.

They have been doing this for months. She wants to believe that "sila
na" but then she's not really sure about it. "We don't talk about it but
it doesn't really matter," she'd tell her friends. "What's important is
I am enjoying this -- whatever it is."

The "parang kayo, pero hindi" stage. Others call it MU or mutual
understanding. Pseudo-relationships. Pseudo- boyfriends.

Flings. Almost like a relationship, but not quite. It is a phase where
the persons involved are more than friends, but not quite lovers.

Puwedeng may verbal agreement, puwedeng wala. One or both of you may
have admitted your feelings, possible ding hindi. You just let your

gestures do the talking for you. Walang pormal na ligawan na nangyari.
Hindi kayo mag-dyowa.

Pero sa kilos niyo, sa mga sinasabi niyo, parang kayo, pero hindi.

This kind of "relationship" can happen at different stages for different
reasons. It can happen after a break-up. You still love each other, and
you want to be with each other but you broke up for a reason. A nd for
reasons that you alone know, ayaw niyo na muna magkabalikan.

It can also happen before a relationship, iyong pareho kayong
nakikiramdam. Possible din na ayaw niyo munang mag-seryoso kaya
kunwa-kunwarian lang muna.

Testing lang.

Puwede ring hindi puwedeng maging kayo kasi isa sa inyo --usually the
guy --may ka-relasyon na. Kaya habang hindi pa siya nakikipag-break doon
sa girl (sabi niya makikipag-break siya soon pero di naman niya
ginagawa), wala muna kayong relasyon para nga naman hindi siya
nangagaliwa kasi "hindi naman kayo."

This pseudo-relationship stage, for a time, can be fun. Lalo na kung
naghahanap ka lang naman ng "kalaro."

Pero huwag ka lang mag-e-expect na may patutunguhan kayo kasi wala
talagang kasiguraduhan.

So bakit ang daming nagse-settle sa ganitong set up ganoong hindi naman
sigurado kung may patutunguhan?

Iba't ibang dahilan. Puwedeng for fun lang.

Puwedeng "buti na iyan kesa w ala" or puwede na iyang "pantawid-gutom."

Meaning, habang wala pa iyong the real thing, doon muna sa
kunwa-kunwarian.

For those who are not in a serious relationship, they would think that
pseudo-relationship is better than no relationship at all. It would be
fun, if all you are after for is that "kilig"
feeling.

Aminado naman ako na once upon a time, may mga pseudo-relationships din
ako. No commitments involved. For the simplest reason that they couldn't
commit, because they were either committed to someone else, or that they
weren't ready to commit.

My rationalization, "okay na iyun, kesa wala."

Ang habol ko lang naman, iyong kilig feeling. Iyong merong nagtatanong
kung

kumusta araw ko. Iyong merong ka-cuddle sa beach outing. Iyong kapag
tumunog ang cellphone, mapapangiti na ako dahil alam kong galing sa
kanya ang message. Iyong merong laging kasama. Habang wala pa ang the
real thing, puwede na itong pagtiyagaan.

But then I learned that although it was only a pseudo-relationship, the
emotions were real. And usually, in this kind of set up, ang babae lagi
ang lugi.

Una, you can't ask him to commit. Since it's not really a relationship,
you

can't demand commitment from your partner. Ano ba kayo? May K ka nga ba
magpasundo ng hatinggabi? You will always be uncertain about your role
in his life. You can't expect him to be always there with you. And if
you feel jealous of the other girls, you just have to keep it to
yourself.

Ano ka ba niya para magselos?

Pangalawa, what if you fall deeply in love with him?
You can't be sure if he feels the same way. Baka nag-a-assume ka lang na
mahal ka rin niya.

Even if you are dying to tell him you love him, you can't.
Because you're not sure if he'll like it. Baka mapahiya ka lang.

This stage will always make you wonder where you are in the
relationship.

Or if there is a relationship at all.

Pangatlo, what if you become attached too much?

What if you have invested all your emotions and this man hasn't?

What if you remain faithful to him, not entertaining other guys, only to
find out that he is seeing other girls?

Isa pang downside ng pseudo-relationships, it is fleeting. When a
disagreement sets in, or when one of you gets cold, then that would be
the end of it. Unlike in a serious relationship, hindi mo alam kung saan
ka lulugar sa isang pseudo-relationship. Wala kang pinanghahawakan.

Kasi sa pseudo-relationship, there is no "us." Meron lang "you and me,"
hindi "us."

Buti sana kung pseudo-pain din lang ang mararanasan mo. Kaso, hindi eh.
Real pain. And usually, kahit tapos na ang pseudo- relationship, hindi
mo maiwasan umasang one day, may karugtong pa rin iyun. And you will be
miserable, hoping to bring back what you used to have, only to find out
eventually that the guy is in another pseudo-relationship with somebody
else.

Ang h irap, ano? You agreed to this kind of set up for fun and then
you'd end up hurting yourself in the process.

Pero puwede naman maiwasan ang pain eh.
Puwede naman na hindi mo muna isipin ang future and just enjoy the
feeling, without thinking of the consequences.

But if you are certain that you are going to hurt yourself in the
process, kailangan mo mamili. You can be happy and live the moment
without worrying what would happen next. Or you can stop settling with
pseudo-relationships and wait for the real thing.

When I was younger and in a pseudo-relationship with an unavailable guy,
a friend told me, "Sige, kung ayaw mong magpapigil, bahala ka.

Magpakasaya ka.

Pero huwag kang iiyak-iyak pagkatapos, dahil tatadyakan kita."

Ang bottom line lang naman, kung magpapasaya sa iyo, gawin mo.

Ihanda mo lang ang sarili mo sa consequence. Dahil ang "parang kayo pero
hindi" stage ay bihirang nagiging totoo. Usually, hanggang doon lang
siya ...

almost, but not quite.

FYI-- di para sakin to ha---my boyfriend ako..sadyang natuwa lang ako dito sa post nato...

I still don't understand...

I still don't understand why life and love is so unfair. Kung bakit despite of claiming that your overall happy, may mga bagay o tao padin na hahadlang sayo. Siguro that's the sign of you cannot please all people na nakapaligid sayo.

I still don't understand kung bakit madaming nakapaligid sa buhay ko na mga pessimist. Instead of being optimistic, parang ang hirap gumalaw pag ganun yung environment.Bakit kase di nalang sila maging masaya para sa akin, para sa amin siguro nga dahil iba na ang sitwasyon.

I still don't understand kung bakit ang dami kung mga tanong sa utak ko. Kung pwede lang i confront ang mga taong involve, kung pwede lang kaya lang ayoko na makasakit, baka kase ako ang mali at sila ang tama kaya sa bandang huli, ibabaon ko nalang kung anu man mga gumugulo sa isipan ko ngayun.

Sana maintindihan ko lahat...

Hope i can get the answers, soon.. It could be thru one of my friends, it could be kit..

at dahil wla kaming magawa

at dahil wala kaming magawa, from north to south...in touched via web cam :)

♥

Most of the people dont easily understand us, most of them judge, critized and perhaps making fun of us but damn who cares..I love you more than they know and love you more than they do :)

ways to say sorry

It’s pretty inevitable that, at some point, you and your sweetie will go toe-to-toe on an issue. Unfortunately, when you find yourself in the wrong, it isn’t always easy to admit it. This doesn’t mean, however, that it has to stay that way. If you’ve found your way into the “dog house,” try using a few of the ideas below to make your way out. Even if you are not the one in the wrong, it’s good to remember that a sincere gesture can go a long way.

• Take an old sheet and write “I’m Sorry!” across it using a large tipped felt pen or marker. Hang it up somewhere your partner will see it, like the shower, garage door or a wall.

• Write a note explaining your feelings. Break any tension by putting the note inside of a humorous “I’m Sorry” card.

• Write out “I’m Sorry” using little Hershey’s Kisses or rose petals.

• Write “I’m Sorry” on quite a few sticky notes and leave them all over the room, or on your partner’s car.

• Hire a singing telegram person to sing an “I’m Sorry” message to your partner.

• Order flowers and include an “I’m Sorry” note.

• Give your partner a big hug and kiss, and tell them you are sorry!

lines

‘In life, you learn to accept things as they really are and not as you imagine them to be. You cannot deal with other people’s shortcomings if you can’t accept reality.’

trip ni kel

Trip ko lang..

*** Para ‘to sa mga taong inlove, naiinlove at maiinlove at baliw na baliw sa pag ka inlove.. Tamanaan sana kayo.

Like and love are two different things. Like is when you know the best side of someone and like them. Love is when you know the worst side that someone could ever have, and you still love the person with everything you have in your heart.

One of the worst ways to miss someone is to be in a room full of people and yet feel lonely ’cause the only person you want to see and long to be with is not there.

Don’t go for someone who is always telling you how perfect you are, ’cause you are not. Find someone who will tell you exactly what he thinks of you. Someone who will tell you how irritating and impossible you can be. Someone who gives compliments at the right time. Someone who will laugh at your clumsiness, but will still love you for it. Someone who won’t be afraid in telling you the truth, and only those who can be honest and loyal up to the very end.

We, at times, sit at one corner alone, appreciating life as we see it through our eyes. then suddenly, someone surprises us, shares that corner until it becomes the world.

Some people love not really wishing to end up together. Some people leave not really willing to go. I love not expecting to be loved back. I leave not because I know I’ll be followed. I love cause I love. I leave cause I let go.

When your hurt, it’s okay to flirt, to date, to hate, to mingle with other people, to drink, to cry, to laugh out loud, to scream , to dance wild… You know why? Because when you’re hurt, you don’t owe anybody any explanation on how you choose to repair what that person broke… live your life as you wish… until you’re whole again…


Post script: Para kay Arnz, Kay Unnie, Kay Poy, Kay Anne, Kay Julius at sa inyong l

— kailangan ba talaga i tag ako hehehe- ANNE

life

Good Riddance

“Kung iiwas ka di ka tatamaan.. pero kung nakita mo ng tatamaan ka pero di ka pa rin umiwas, wala kang karapatan para umaray pag nasaktan ka.”

Good Riddance

“Kung iiwas ka di ka tatamaan.. pero kung nakita mo ng tatamaan ka pero di ka pa rin umiwas, wala kang karapatan para umaray pag nasaktan ka.”

“The scariest part in being loved by someone is the uncertainty that they may stop.. anytime.”

If it takes great courage to stand & fight for something..sometimes it takes even greater courage to just walk away & leave things behind..

never wish for a perfect partner…
never expect for an amazing romance…
never set standards about whom you should love…
because the one who asks for the best,
ends up having LEFT OVERS

When I know things are not meant for me, I learn to let go… It doesn’t mean I’m weak. But, I’m just showing how strong I am to fight the urge of wanting something I’m not supposed to have….
Tags: ♥

you

My wonderful day starts with a simple smile from your face,
Everytime I look at you, I feel simply amazed
For me you’re the blessing and God’s grace,
You always make me happy in your simple ways.

Hours passed and the day turned to night,
Still, I can’t take you away from my sight,
How can I fall asleep if I can’t forget the sweetest looks in your eyes?
It’s an expected thing that you’re the reason why my night becomes bright.

The night have gone and the next day came,
My whole day was never be the same,
For I was not able to see you and all I can feel is pain,
But this pain won’t stop me from loving you, again and again.

It wasn’t easy to have this emptiness in me,
Being with you is where I want to be,
You’re the reason of this sudden misery,
But then you’re the completion of my story.

ikaw ang aking pangarap

love his voice♥ parang may pinag huhugutan talaga yung kanta nya :(

love

Simplicity is the main component in love. Although we may not see it, it is there. Love is simple, what makes it complicated is life. Life is a integrated web of emotions cause by events and people. Sure love is an emotion but it is not cause, it just happens. But for the rest of the emotions are cause because nobody gets angry, sad or happy for no reason, well naturally at least. So it is simple to love someone. It may seem complicated because the rest of you emotion mixes the pot. But with the other emotions it makes love so much better. It makes the pain worth it, because the love is just what you want. Just what you need.

FROM KHEL

“Patayin ang sarili” attempt

I can’t exactly remember when it happened but the story goes like this.. I received a call from an officemate. He was asking for a favor. Puntahan ko daw si FRIEND A because she’s not feeling well. I was asking him kung anong nangyari tapos sbi nya basta daw kausapin ko si FRIEND A and puntahan kung meron akong time.

Nag iisip ako kung anong nangyari. HIndi ko ma contact ung fone nya so I decided to call Ate. Then Ate explained to me everything.. FRIEND A’s housemate suppossed to call me but dialed the wrong number because may kapareho ng name.

According to FRIEND A, hindi nya na kinaya ang mga problema, parang nag halo-halo na and everything. She took a large amount of meds hanggang sa naadik sya hehehe joke. Syempre overdose. She was immediately rushed to a nearby hostpital/ center. May mga police report na, questions ng doctor, hindi pede gamitin ang insurance mga ganong issue. So ang ending nakiusap sila na wag na lang sabihing “patayin ang sarili attempt” kasi nga gusto nya ng takasan ang problema nya tapos makukulong pa sya oh di ba parang double dead naman sya nun.

Then I spoke to her. But I never judger her. I know FRIEND’s A has been going through difficulities in her relationship with her partner and her family. Nakikinig lang ako. I can say na kahit paulit ulit pa yung issue hindi ako mag sasawang makinig. Kasi ganon din ako eh minsan matigas din ang ulo ko wahahaha..

And to FRIEND B.. may mga tao talagang sasaktan ka. Pwedeng ungkatin nila lahat ng baho mo or kung ano mang secrets mo sa buhay pero hindi natatapos dun ang buhay. Iikot pa rin ang mundo at haharapin mo pa rin yun sooner or later. Minsan mahirap talagang mag pa ka strong though sa part namin ang dali-daling sabihin. Yung mga taong nananakit sayo or nanakit syo ang dapat maging motivation mo to be stronger person. You have to prove that your LIFE won’t stop because merong mga issues na nahalungkat.

Be tough buddy. Ang daming magagandang bagay sa mundo, marami ka pang matututunan.

—–i love you..i love you..ilove you….napaiyak mo ako sa wall mo. Never thought na babalik padin ang issue na to. and up until now iilan lang kaung nakakaalam and nakakaintindi. i love you….– ANNE

I love you because...

I love you not because you put up with my drama,

but because you are always there when I need you.

I love you not because you tell me I’m beautiful,

but because you love me despite my flaws.

I love you not because you laugh at my jokes,

but because you do your best to make me smile everyday.

I love you not because you tell me you do ,

but because you put your words into action.

I love you not because you give me guidance,

but because you listen when I need you to.

I love you not because you spoil me,

but because you do it in a special way.

I love you not because you love me too,

but because there is no one else like you.

One last dedication to my one last love :(

 

You know what makes letting go of a love so hard? The fear that the minute you let go…they’ll catch on.” “Letting go isn’t about giving up. It’s about accepting that there are things that cannot be.” “Letting go is when love hurts the most.” “Same old story that everybody knows, it’s one heart holding on, one heart letting go.” “You hug him good-bye like it’s nothing… while all you want to do is hold on forever…but you let go, smile and walk away… then cry all the way home because you know it will never be the same… because try as you might you can’t make someone love you, sometimes you have to let them be free… and letting go, that is when love hurts the most of all.” “And so it finally happened. My poor, heart finally crumbled into a little pile of dust and blew away. It was over. I was never going to get him back. It was time for a little self-respect. It was time to let go. Time to move on. “I made the choice to finally go because I can’t stand this pain. It’s time for my last tear to fall and me to smile again.” “One of these days you’ll realize how I was the one for you. How you threw it all away. And when that day comes, I’ll smile and tell you the same things you once told me. “I always knew how to smile just so that they thought I wasn’t crying on the inside.

I was ready to drown in the tears I hide, hanging on to a thread of hope so foreign to me that I sometimes doubted it even existed. The damage has been done, I’m sick of the tears. I’m giving up now but still… I love you.” “It’s easy to let go when holding on hurts so bad.” “I don’t want to lose you but I don’t want to use you just to have someone by my side.” “Sometimes you have to let someone go to see if there is anything worth holding on to.” “Since you’ve been gone, you’re all I can think about. It gets me all choked up. This heart of mine keeps dreaming of you. And it’s crazy and I think I’ve had enough.”

“We had said good-bye so many times before, but somehow our paths always managed to cross and we ended up in each other’s arms. But now when we said this good-bye I have this feeling that I will never see you again. And that really hurts because I know that we are meant to lead our own seperate lives. And I honestly don’t wanna cross your path in the future cause I don’t want all these feelings to come back and have to try to get over all over again.” “I guess we’ve had our fun but it seems our fun is over now and that’s all right it’s all right time for me to move along and after all is said and done I’ll be all right it’s all right. “There would come a time when we have to stop loving someone not because that person started hating us but because we found out that they’d be happier if we let them go…” “A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out that it wasn’t meant to be and you just have to let go..” “Letting go isn’t a one-time thing, it’s something you have to do everyday, over and over again.” “It’s really painful to say goodbye to someone else that you don’t want to let go, but it’s even more painful to ask someone to stay if you can never make the relationship work out the way it should.” “To let go isn’t to forgot, not to think about, or ignore. It doesn’t leave feelings of anger, jealousy, or regret. Letting go isn’t about winning or losing. It’s not about pride and it’s not about how you appear, and it’s not obsessing or dwelling on the past. Letting go isn’t blocking memories or thinking sad thoughts, and doesn’t leave emptiness, hurt, or sadness. It’s not about giving in or giving up.

Letting go isn’t about loss and it’s not about defeat. To let go is to cherish the memories, but to overcome and move on. It is having an open mind confidence in the future. Letting go is learning and experiencing and growing. To let go is to be thankful for the experiences that made you laugh, made you cry, and made you grow. It’s about all that you have, all that you had, and all that you will soon gain. Letting go is having the courage to accept change, and the strength to keep moving. Letting go is growing up. It is realizing that the heart can sometimes be the most potent remedy. To let go is to open a door, and to clear a path and set yourself free.” “The pain is just too strong right now and the tears are still lingering on my face.

That’s why I think it is best that I just let go.” “And I will face the world around me knowing that I’m strong enough to let you go. And if I will fall in love again because I can to the right guy in the furture.” “Moving on is simple, it’s what you leave behind that’s hard.” “How do you prepare a heart to be broken, or dreams to fall through? How do you let go of a miracle who means everything to you? How do you walk away, with the tears in your eyes…. letting go isn’t easy…you just pray you can survive.” “I hate being put in this position.. I’m forcing myself to let go of the one person that I need in my life. He’s the only thing that makes sense, but at the same time, the one thing that complicates me.. I know that I’m better off without him, yet I feel empty whenever I try to let go…but I guess that emptiness is better than constant hurt.” “I wonder who will I love and who will I see, but most of all I wonder who will I be? It seems like yesterday I had it all and nothing was wrong, but the times are changing and time will come that i’ve finally moved on… “Yes, it hurt. It’s hard letting go of something that you didn’t know you were hoping for.” I know how happy you are right now with her… I just hope it will last forever…

usapang puso at utak

pangako…

Tagapagsalita: Ilang beses ko na ring narinig yang word na yan, at ilang beses ko na ring nasambit yan, sa sarilli ko at sa ibang tao. Minsan, dahil sa salitang yan, nakakasakit tayo sa kapwa natin at lalo sa mga mas malalapit sa atin. Kasi kailangan nating sundin. Kailangan nating gawin. Kasi kung hindi, bawas points sa pagkatao natin. Pero minsan din, ilang beses na nating hindi ginagawa, pero walang effect. Siguro kasi mga maliliit na bagay lang un. Pero kahit na, kahit na maliit na bagay na nilagyan ng pangako, kailangan tuparin di ba? Lalo na pag ang sangkot eh puso.

Minsan din, mahirap kasing tuparin dahil sa mga personal na rason. Minsan din mga personal na rason, na hindi naman talaga naayon sa sitwasyon, kailangan lang talagang putulin at wag gawin. Sabihin na nating para hindi masyadong madurog ang isang puso. O kaya sabihin na natin, para sa ikabubuti ng dalawang puso. Nakakainis minsan kasi bakit pa kailangang may rason pag hindi natupad ang isang pangako. Nakakasakit lang kasi ng damdamin pag hindi un nakuha eh. Nagbibigay lang ng pag asa at liwanag na kalian man hindi pala totoo.

Noong nakaraang araw lang, pinangakuan ako. Sa dami ng mga pangakong hindi ko nakuha, dapat pa ba akong umasa sa pangakong un? Kakayanin ko pa kaya kung hanggang kailan ako maghihintay na matupad un? Lalo na at sangkot ang aking puso. Ang hirap mag expect na 50-50 ka kung mangyayari ba un o hindi. Ang hirap magtiwala na nagdadalwang isip ka kung this time matutupad. Ang hirap umasa pag nararamdaman mong wala naman talaga. At mas lalong mahirap ang pilitin mo ang iyong sarili na wag ng umasa at maniwala kung ang puso mo naman eh kabaliktaran ang kayang gawin.

Tunghayan ang pag uusap nina puso at utak ng dalawang araw.

Puso: Sana hindi ako mapagod sa kahihintay sa pangakong un.

Utak: Gaga! Martyr ka ba? Marami ka ng narinig na pangako, natupad ba lahat un? Hahayaan mo na naman bang magdugo ka bago ka matauhan?

Puso: Iba naman siguro ngaun kasi xa, minahal niya ako.

Utak: Bakit, minahal ka nga ba niya? Kung minahal ka niya, hindi ka niya hahayaang malunod sa iyak mo. Kung mahal ka niya gagawin niya ang lahat para maging masaya ka.

Puso: Sabi nila, sa pag ibig, kailangan ng space. Siguro un ang nangyayari sa amin ngaun kaya niya ako iniwan saglit.

Utak: Saglit? Ang tanga mo naman! Hindi un saglit loka! Habang buhay un. Wag kang maniwala na panandalian lang yan. At space ba kamo? Literal na space naman yang sinasabi mo eh. Dapat nga ngaung magkalayo kau, dun matetest kung talagang mahal ka ng minamahal mong yan eh. Tsaka dai, ilang bwan lang iniwan ka na nya sa ere.

Puso: Kahit na, nagsisi naman xa eh.

Utak: Ang tanga! Ang tanga! Ang tanga! Hindi ka pa ba nakakaramdam ha? Ilang batok ba ang kailangan mo para magising ka sa kaadikan mo sa kanya ha? Nagsorry lang xa sa ginawa niya sa u pero hindi ibig sabihin nun, nagsisisi xa at gusto ka niyang balikan!

Puso: Ganun talaga ano ka ba.. Sabi nila, sa ngalan ng pag ibig, nakakaya nating maging tanga at loka loka. Pano kung narealize niya na mahal pa rin nya ako at hindi lang niya masabi kasi nahihiya xa sa ginawa niya sakin? Pano kung meron nga talagang tamang panahon para sa dalawang pusong minsaý pinaglayo ng tadhana?

Utak: Dai, sa mga movies lang at libro nangyayari ang mga yan, hindi yan nangyayari sa totoong buhay. Kung meron man, one in a million lang un. At wag ka ng umasa sa one percent na yun! Malabo dai, malabo.

Puso: Malay mo totoo?

Utak: Gaga, pano kung ung tamang panahon na sinasabi niya eh, ung panahon na wala ka na sa kalendaryo?

Puso: Dai, kahit uugod ugod na ako, o kaya naman ay palibutan na ng agiw ang buong katawan ko, hihintayin ko. (lolz.. kaya ko kaya un??)

Utak: Anak shuta naman oh. Sana hindi ka na lang pinanganak! Sayang yang matris mo. (haha) Pero dai, wag na wag mo kong sisisihin pag yang pangakong yan, hindi natupad. Bahala ka sa buhay mo! Maghintay ka kung may mahihintay ka pa.

Tagapagsalita: Hay, ang hirap magdesisyon noh? Lalo na pag kalaban mo puso. Sana lang makakaya ko to. Sana lang matutupad nga ang pangakong un.

Confrimation

Endless heart-breaking thoughts…

• the saddest thing in the world, is loving someone who used to love you
• sometimes two people decides to be ”just friends” even if they still love each other and i often wonder why? i suppose its not the love that’s so hard to sustain… but the commitment that complicates everything…
• just when my mind found the answers… my heart changed the question…
• If things wr dfrent, i cud b kissing u right now. If things wr dfrent, u cud b mine somehow. But they’re not, n its ok. Coz i know dat someday… Things will b difrent anyway

A heart-breaking story..

The Ex- GF confronts her Ex-Bf..

EX-Gf: How dare u play our song on your wedding ceremony? How dare you pick my favorite color as ur motif?.. How dare u choose our anniversary date as your wedding day? How dare you look at me before u kiss your wife

The ex-GF breaks down and cry..

Ex-BF: Because thats the last and only way I could… pretend that you’re my wife.

• I was finally getting over you, believing we were really not meant to be. I even had crushes other than you. I was walking away, with my head up high thinking I wasn’t going to fall.. But then you smiled and ruined it all.
• the best way to heal a heart that has been broken is to kill that person who has made it happen. ~Adolf Hitler
• One of the saddest part of life is keeping yourself busy and pushing yourself to the limit all day and when you get home..Lying in bed, You’ll discover that after all you’ve done to forget, you are still in that very same position that you’re trying to escape..

Sa Inuman

Sa Inuman:

1. Pag abot ng baso- 3 minutes ang pinakamatagal na pag hintay. Mag bigay konsiderasyon sa mga ibang umiinom-sundin ang gintong kasabihan “Di bale mag tagal k**s at s*s* wag lang sa baso”

2. Pag katapos tumagay-ibalik sa tanggero ang baso-tinagayan ka na, baka nmn pedeng iblik mo sa knya. Hindi ka prinsipe.

3. Ang chaser ay panawid lasa-hindi panawid uhaw. Dun ka sa gripo lumaklak kung kktapos mo lng mag gym.

4. Iwasan mag tapon ng alak, binabyran yan. Di ka pa nga ata nag ambag… aaksayin mo pa.. tigas ng mukha tlga.. hehehe.

5. Siguraduhing mag aambag ka sa inuman-tigas mo nmn kung mkikiinom k ng libre-pede k lng malibre kung nilibre ka nila or niyaya ka kht sbi mong wla kang pera.

Sa pulutan:

1. Una sa lahat, ang pulutan at panawid pait, hindi pnwid gutom-kumain ka sa inyo kung gutom ka. Wag kang kung-fu kid! haha.

2. Pag gngmitan ng tinidor, huwag mong kakamayin-pra kang wlang piang aralan.

3. Pagkain ng isda, hindi bnblgtad-sbi nila sa mga marino galing ang istilo na to pra hindi tumaob ang barko.

4. Huwag mag reklamo kung ano ang nkahain. Tandaan mo hindi ‘to fiesta, inuman to.

5. Ang tinik, buto at mga parteng hindi makakain ilagay sa tabi-huwag kang baboy.

Kung hindi ka tanggero, guitarista at birthday boy/girl-pede kang mag luto at tumulong sa iba pang gawain sa inuman. Hindi ka pinanganak na senyorito, kung pakiramdam mo hari ka- dun ka sa kaharian mo mag inom.

Asal sa Mesa:

1. Kung isa lang ang tinidor, huwag mag inarte-Koboy dapat. Inuman to-hindi sosyalan.

2. Sa kwentuhan, alam namin na kayo ang pinaka -siga, maraming chicks, mayaman, maporma at pinaka magaling sa lht ng bgy. Kuwag mo ng ikwento.

3. Pag bisita ka, makitawa sa mga joke nila- makihalubilo, aalukin ka nila ng ilang beses pero wag mong abusuhin-hindi ka sanggol.

4. Huwag ka ring masyadong pasikat-ok lang mag kwento pag dayo ka-huwag ka lang kupal.

5. Huwag na huwag mambabara kung bisita ka. pede lang mambara kung kupal ang binara.

6. Irespeto ang opinyon ng iba tulad ng pag respeto mo sayo.

7. Pag hindi mo na kya- pwedeng pumas- huwag kang pasikat-kupal ang dating mo non.

8. Mag patawa ka para masaya-kung mang aasar ka sa tropa siguraduhing nkktawa, hindi panlalait. Konsiderasyon sa bisita.

9. Huwag makipag sabayan. Buraot ang alagaing lasing.

10. Bigyan ng pugay ang nag painom at may birthday-wag kang agaw eksena.

11. Goodtimes lagi.

After Inumam:

1. Ugaliing tumulong mag ligpit.

2. Kung di na kaya humiga sa isang tabi.

3. Kung di tumutulong mag ligpit, huwag makulit.

4. Huwag kalimutan mag paalam sa nag painom at mga kainuman.

5. Kung aalis sa kalagitnaan ng inuman, gawing habit ang mag iwan ng pang ambag.

Suka Tips:

1. pag naduduwal na, kumuha ng matamis pra may pang sabay sa bibig kpag nag lalaway na.

2. Huwag mag yoyosi pag nasusuka na, iba ang epekto ng usok sa tyan pag nakainom.

3. Pag nakakaramdam na ng suka, tumayo agad at dumiretso sa pinkamalapit sa sukahan- (banyo, inidoro)

4. Mag mumog lagi pag katpos sumuka-kadiri ang bibig mo brad.

5. At kung plano pang bmlk sa mesa-siguraduhing malinis ang itsura pra di ka itaboy.

Tanggero Tips:

1. Bilang punong naatasan sa pag pasa ng tagay, siguraduhing kumpleto ka ng gamit ulad ng: tabo ng tubig (pang banlaw ng baso pag beer ang iniinom), pambukas at lighter.

2. Obligasyon mo ay ipasa ang tagay sa lahat ng manginginom, mga nag ambag-alukin ang lht ng bisita.

Sa mga manginginom:

1. Pakunsuwelo sa mga nag painom at tanggero, alalayan sila tulad ng pag replenish ng yelo, pulutan, pag bili ng pulutan at pag papalit ng music kung walang nakaatasang dj.

2. Ipanatiling masaya ang inuman, makinig sa ssbhn ng iba kung drama at mag saya pra makalimot sa problema.

Mabuhay ang mga manginginom!!!

joke time

SA BAKERY
Pulubi: Palimos po ng cake.
Ale: Aba , sosyal ka ah! Namalimos ka lang, gusto mo pang cake.. eto pandesal!
Pulubi: Duh! Ate?! Bday ko kaya today?!?

Nanay: Ang lakas mo kumain pero di ka mautusan. Ang kapal mo!
Anak: Kapag yung baboy natin malakas kumain, natutuwa ka. Sino ba talaga ang anak mo, ako o ung baboy? Umayos ka nay! Wag ganun!

JUDGE: Ano ba talaga nangyari?
ERAP: ? (di nagsasalita)
JUDGE: Sumagot ka sa tanong.
ERAP: Naman eh!!! Kala ko ba hearing lang to??? Bakit may speaking?

in a miss gay pageant:
HOST: how can we uplift our economy today even though we are under economic
crisis?
BAKLA: (namutla) mga bakla! Akala ko ba miss gay ito? Quizbee pala!

BOY: dad, tulong naman sa assignment ko. Find the least common denominator daw.
DAD: ha? aba’y elementary pa lang ako eh hinahanap na nila yan ah! Aba’y di pa ba nila nakikita?

GF: magaling! At sino tong baby na nagtext sayo?
BF: ah eh kumpare ko yun! Lalake yun! Baby lang palayaw.
GF: oh eto replyan mo. Hindi daw kayo tuloy at may mens daw ang tarantado!


INA: anak, tawagan mo nga tatay mo sa celfon. Pauwiin mo dito.
[pagkatapos tawagan.]
ANAK: nay, babae po ang sumagot.
INA: lintik, sinasabi ko na nga ba, may tinatago yang tatay mo eh! Anong
sabi?
ANAK: ‘you only have zero pesos in your account…’ hindi ko na tinapos nay
mukhang matapobre.


nagbubungkal ng lupa si Erap para magtanim. Akala ng nakakita niloloko lang
siya dahil wala naman siyang tinatanim.
BANTAY: sir, wala naman kayong tinatanim ah.
ERAP: bobo! Seedless to!

my wave

im back..parang ang dami kong utang sa blog site na to.Sana lang masabi ko dito.

First, andito nako sa PINAS…after 2 years eto na naman ako para sa mission na hangang ngyun diko pa alam kung may patutunguhan. Isa lang alam kong tama nung umuwi ako, yun para sa papa ko.OO masaya naman ako dahil kasama ko na sila finally, pero sabi nga nila di naman lahat ibibigay syo ng Diyos, Masaya sa isang pangyayare sa buhay mo pero asahan mo din na may part din na hindi and sadly, mas madmi yung part na HINDI…:(

im back, sa call center hehehe ito na ata ang buhay ko, ang makipag barngaran sa mga clients hehe. From SITEL to ONE GLOBAL its my choice kung bakit nagkaganoon, may mga bagay lang siguro na sa tingin ko pwede pang iprioritize than money, isang bagay na isang pitik kolang pinagisipan, isang bagay na ganun nalang ako kabilis napaoo, again, its my choice no regrets..

Sa ilang buwan ko sa SITEL, i gained friends…12 sila!! hehehe talagang bilang ko sila, and i would like to take this oppurtunity para magpasalamat sa12 tao na yun. Sa saya at sa mala teledramang experiences kasama sila. Quota kami sa photos. from inuman, videoke,swimming, and etc. not to mention na di naman ako umiinom, namumulutan lang to MICHELLE, Salamat sis for keeping some valuable secrets na sana hangang ngayun secret padin…Sulit ang unlitxt globe ko sayo, i wish you well sa lahat and sa family mo..YUAN, for being my companion san sulok ng Malolos, ikaw na ata ang pinaka matagal kung nakasama sa batch at ang laki kong ka partner sa videoke kahit na napakataas na ng kanta, bibirtit padin…Sa fx stand, na kahit madalas kang LATE iniintay padin kita, sana lang ngyon dika na nalalate teh, wla nakong kaharutan dito hehehe, hope your doin good with crys♥. BONG, heller,,,i miss na your voice pare. balik ako sa inyo ha salamat kase kinupkop mo kami ni yuan nung holy week. MIss kona si misis BOB, iba ka! RNB boy..natatandaan ko pa yung unang libre mo samin sa JAPOKS. ONIN, nakaka miss ang tambalan nyo ni mitch. hay kung ala kang gf at ala sya asawa malamang pwedeng pwede kayo. hehe RUS, miss kona food na mga dala mo, dalan mo nga ako dito.CHE, sorry kung di ako nakapag paalam sayo ha. thank you sa mga aral na tinuro mo sakin from training days pa at even sa personal life. Panu ba kita makakalimutan lalu na nung nag swimming tau, sa tingin ko naman lahat di makakalimutan yun. PRINCESS, ading, kahit minsan minsan ka lang sumama samin ayus ka. malakas ka palang uminom ng alak hehehe. at dun sa iba. Salamat sa mga memories ng wave natin Sana makita ko pa kayo

gusto ko..

Gusto ng isang taong mahal ako, yung tipong mahal ako bilang ako, sabagay anu pabang pwedeng mahalin sakin e my attitude problem din naman ako(lahat naman diba). Di naman ako ganung ka maldita kase I know deep down inside my heart e mabuting tao din ako. Madali akong mapikon at maasar lalu na sa mga taong feeling magaling. Not to say na naiinsecure ako. yung mga taong pa bida.Pa star.

Gusto ko ng taong mahal ang pamilya ko. Kase para sakin sila ang pinaka importante sa balat ng mundo. Yung tipong makakasundo mga kapatid ko at pabor ang magulang ko.

Gusto ko yung tipo ng tao na mababaw lang ang gusto, kase sa totoo alng mababaw din ako. Tamang sa isang relasyon dadating sa puntong may away. Pero it doesn’t matter kung ilang beses tau magaway kundi ilang beses tau magbabati.

Gusto ko yung taong sensitive. Yung pagnagkita kau, may connection kagad, may impact!. Yung tipo ng tao na pagnakita kang umiiyak e sasabihin tahan na, hindi yung ikaw kase. Ayoko ng argue. Sumasakit lang ulo ko, akse paikot ikot lang yun na “ikaw kase”. Yung tipo ng tao na sasabay sa agos ng buhay ko. sympre yung willing.! yung walang sekreto, yung walang tinatago. Yung kayang sabihin lahat saakin at taas noon kang pwedeng ipagmalaki.Yung tipo ikaw ang pipilin above all without any single hesitations.

Yun. Yung taong Yun ang GUSTO KO♥

IKAW

ikaw

Kailan kaya maibabalik ang nakaraan
Ngayong aking puso’y puno ng kalungkutan
Subukin man ang magmahal
Umibig pang minsan kahit sa pangarap man lng

Ikaw ang tangi kong mahal
Ang laging kong dasal na sana ay matagpuan
Ikaw, hangang sa kailanman
Hindi magsasawa na magmahal kahit nasasaktan

Hiling ko lang sa maykapal muli ay makamtam
Tamis ng pagsuyo kailan mahahagkan
Hinding hindi ipagpapalit kahit kanino man
Asahan mong maghihitay
Ikaw ang siyang buhay!

Ikaw ang tangi kong mahal
Ang lagi kong dasal na sana ay matagpuan
Ikaw, hanggang sa kailanman
Hindi magsasawa na magmahal kahit nasasaktan

Wala ng hahanapin pa…
Wala ng iibigin pa kundi ikaw…
Ikaw…

Ikaw ang tangi kong mahal
(Ang lagi kong dasal na sana ay matagpuan)
Ikaw, hanggang sa kailanman
Hindi magsasawa na magmahal kahit nasasaktan

GOOD MORNING KABAYAN…
share ko lang sa inyo tong song nato. diko naman sya ganung ka gusto
pero just read between the lines. IT ROCKS! dunno why when i heard this
song parang bumalik ako sa highschool. I liked the lyrics, annoying
that i loved the song without dedicating it to someone else but i
supposed to have right(i dont known why) but anyway, lets just enjoy
the song. yun lang.
Everytime na nakakarining ako ng mga ganitong kanta, ewan ko ba?
feeling ko its for me. siguro ganun lang ako ka in to music. you will
never see me dancing ( i swear) but singing is my passion. Di man ako
ganung kagaling kumanta, pero satisfied naman ako hehehe. Siguro dun ko
lang talaga na eexpress yung mga thoughts na gusto ko and I could tell
on the spot name and dedicate a song for somebody specially when it comes
to those people i loved with.

10 things in my bag

• MY NOL CARD - its important for bus rides and car parks or in METRO.
• CREDIT CARD- for emergency used AGAIN for emergency use!
• FULLUS-aw my wallet is drained already.
• LIP BALM- ITS WINTER!.Since i dont use lipstick or gloss.
• COM- for my hair
• DnG PERFUME
• MOBILE PHONE-Serve as his LOCATOR.
• TOOTHBRUSH/PASTE- For daily hygiene.
• PARKER PEN- For writing purposes.
• ROSARY- For my safety!

My routine.

How and when you will know the right time to let go of your special someone?

FIRST. Kung sinaktan ka niya “physically”. It is a big FOUL. If he/she truly loves you, di niya gagawin yun. Kahit pa sabihin niyang nabigla lang siya or naasar lang talaga siya nung time na yun. There is no valid reason para gawin niya yun sayo. In the first place, di naman yun ginagawa ng parents mo kahit na sila ang bumubuhay satin, sila pa kaya? Next, sino ba sila para gawin yun? Kung ginawa niya sayo ito, it only means that kailangan mo na siyang hiwalayan.

SECOND. Foul words are not allowed. Alam na rin naman natin kung anu-ano ang limitasyon natin sa isa’t-isa. Kung nagsabi siya ng mga unwanted words or foul words sayo, automatically masasaktan ka emotionally. Natural lang naman sa isang relationship ang magkaroon ng misunderstanding, pero wag kang papayag na paulit-ulit niyang sabihin sayo ang mga foul words na yan. If he does, that’s the time you must let go of him.

THIRD. Don’t set aside the misunderstandings between you and your partner. For example, once nakita mo may kasamang ibang girl yung boyfriend mo tapos masaya silang nag-uusap, there will be a possibility na magseselos ka. So after tha, siyempre tatanungin mo siya kung bakit niya kasama yun, anong pinag-usapan nila?, etc. Pag sinagot niyang: “Ah wala yun, bayaan mo na yun.”, wag kang papayag na ganun lang. Di dapat ganun, dapat sa isang misunderstanding, naliliwanagan kayong dalawa towards your mistakes. Kaya nga misunderstanding eh, pag-uusapan niyo para maiintindihan, para malinaw. Kung ganyan lang siya ng ganyan, just let go.

FOURTH. In a relationship, may mga times na malapit at malayo kayo sa isa’t-isa. Pero kung ang gusto ng partner mo na siya lang ang dapat mong bigyan ng time, that’s the time to let go of him. Kasi kung ganun lang ang gusto niya, di kayo matutong makisama sa iba’t-ibang klase ng tao at iba’t-ibang klaseng sitwasyon. Gets? Pag ganun siya ibig sabihin nun, selfish siya, at hindi dapat ganun.

I hope you learn something form this stuff. I just wanna share my ideas and thoughts to all of you. ^__^

Call Center Agent

“Call center”
Mataas na sweldo, magaan na trabaho, no age limit at hindi rin kailangang
college graduate. Ang tanging requirement, ganda ng boses at galing sa
pagsasalita. ‘Ika nga ng iba, “in” ka kapag nasa call center ka. Pero
paano kung ang kapalit ng magadnang sweldo at iba’t ibang benepisyo, ay
ang kanilang kalusugan at kaligtasan?

That is the article at abs-cbsnews.com about their feature in The
Correspondents about call centers and their employees.

Sad to say, Gigi Grande and the producers who conceptualized the said
episode was not able to capture the truth behind call centers and their
employees.

magaan na trabaho — this is a misconception that a lot of people have
about call centers. this is work, serious work and not playtime. as call
center agents we are the frontliners of some of the biggest companies
around the world. we handle their first line of defense for their
businnes, Customer Service. we Filipinos who work in call centers
represent these companies to their consumers and we filipinos can spell
the success or downfall of these business just on how we deal with their
consumers 24/7 and that is not an easy task. the reason why call centers
thrive in the philippines is because filipinos have good customer service
skills. we are professional workers and we give everything a 100%. i
salute all the call center employees who make this feat possible. it means
jobs and job security to the filipinos who wanted to work in their own
country.

no age limit — because call centers are equal opportunity employers. they
do not set limitations to people’s ability to work. it is only here in the
philippines where we put an age limit to applications. it really does not
matter what age the applicant is as long as they can still deliver quality
performance. it is called diversity.

hindi rin kailangang college graduate - for cheap call centers maybe, not
for the big ones. we encourage our applicants to finish college first
before applying. they may also be assisted through schedule requests if
they want to continue studying while still employed.

Ang tanging requirement, ganda ng boses at galing sa pagsasalita — for
radio stations yes. not for call center. we are not DJs. we also require
high IQ and intelligence in call centers. For example, Wil Ison, the 24 yo
manager who was featured in The Correpondents. You did not even applaude
him for reaching that position in such a young age. if he was employed in
a bank, he will only become a manager if he kissed enough bossess ass or
because he is already 50 years old. People like Wil were promoted because
they are good employees. Most of the call centers have internal
application processes that enables the employees to apply for higher
position highliting their performance and capabilities and not who their
friends are and whose ass they just wiped.

‘Ika nga ng iba, “in” ka kapag nasa call center ka. - this is not a fad.
we are working, we pay our taxes, we are productive citizens of this
country. we chose to stay and earn here in our own country rather than go
abroad and contribute to the brain drain. we earn a lot beacuse we work
hard. we are thankful for the good education we were provided by our
parents that gave us the competencies we have now. we are working for
multinational companies and we get promoted. most of us 21-30 years old
and we are managers, supervisors and senior managers.

we may not be doctors or lawyers but at least we are not corrupt. we are
productive and we make sure that our families and our future families will
not be included with the uneducated, paid rallyists in EDSA, who do not
even understand why they are there. we are not a burden to the government,
they should even be thankful because it is our tax, the middle class tax,
that makes it possible for the Philippines to stay alive.

instead of potraying us as obese, smoking insomiacs….why not thank us?
applaude our achievements, be proud that we are very good with what we do
that’s why investors come in to the philippines. ask the government to
provide security to the employees who have different schedules from the
normal 9-5 workers? ask them to take care of us and in return we will work
harder, show the companies that it is worth investing in the philippines,
we will continue to pay our taxes and slowly but surely help our country
progress.

BABAE

Ang babae, nirerespeto, inaalagaan!Hindi yan PSP na bubunutin mo lang sa bulsa pag gusto mo ng paglaruan.Hindi yan IPOD na papakinggan mo lang kapag wala kang libangan.At hindi yan RED HORSE na pwede mong laklakin hanggang madaling-araw.Ang babae, marami mang arte sa katawan, hindi yan gadget para kolektahin at paglaruan.”

“Bakit ka magpaparamdam sa taong hindi marunong makaramdam? Wag kang magpakatanga, sa taong hindi marunong magpahalaga. Matuto kang sumuko at mang-iwan, kung lagi ka namang sinasaktan.

Imbis na magtanong ka ng “Hindi pa ba sapat?” Bakit hindi mo na lang kalimutan ang lahat? Kung alam mong binabalewala ka na, tanggapin mong nagsasawa na sya.

Wag kang magpadala sa salitang “sorry” at “ayokong mawala ka”

kung totoo yun,patunayan nya.”

“Paano mo masasabing special ka sa isang tao kung ang bawat ginagawa niya sayo ay ginagawa din niya sa iba? “

sabi nila kahit ano daw problema, isang tao lang ang makakatulong sa yo - ang sarili mo…. kaya siguro namigay ng konsensya ang dyos, alam nyang hindi sa lahat ng oras gumagana ang utak ng tao”

“minsan pala kailangan rin ang lakas para sabihing mahina ka…. ang karapatan kong madapa at bumangon sa buhay ng walang tatatawa, magagalit, magtatanong o magbibilang kung ilang beses na kong nagkamali at ilang ulit ako dapat bumawi”

“hayaang maisip ko na may sarili din akong barko. obligasyon kong maglayag, karapatan kong pumunta sa kung saan ko gusto, responsibilidad ko ang buhay ko”

“paghahangad ng diploma - ritual yon, tradisyon, sakramentong hinihingi ng lipunan para makapagtrabaho ka at kumita nang disente. at oo, para na rin respetuhin ka ng ibang tao”

“parang ‘times up’ ang reunion, ‘pass your papers, finished or not’. oras na para husgahan kung naging sino ka o kung naging magkano ka”

“kung pumapasok tayo sa eskwela para lang makahanap ng trabaho at kumita ng pera balang-araw, di na nakakapagtaka kung bakit marami ang namamatay na mangmang. nakalimutan na ng tao ang kabanalan nya, na mas marami pa syang alam kesa sa nakasulat sa transcript of records nya, mas madami pa syang gawin kesa sa nakalista sa resume’ nya at mas mataas ang halaga nya kesa sa presyong nakasulat sa payslip nya tuwing sweldo”

“habang lumalaki ka, maraming beses kang madadapa. bumangon ka man ulit o hindi, magpapatuloy ang buhay, iikot ang mundo at mauubos ang oras”

“hindi pala exam na may passing rate ang buhay. hindi ito multiple choice, identification, true or false, enumeration o fill-in-the-blanks na sinasagutan kundi essay na isinusulat araw-araw. huhusgahan ito hindi base sa kung tama o mali ang sagot, kundi base kung may kabuluhan ang mga naisulat o wala”

“marami palang libreng lecture sa mundo, ikaw ang gagawa ng syllabus. maraming teachers sa labas ng eskwelahan, desisyon mo kung kanino ka magpapaturo”

“paggawa na ba ng kabutihan ang hindi paggawa ng kasamaan?”

“ang kapangyarihan ay tatagal lang ng ilang taon - anim, sampu, dalawampu…. pero ang impluwensya daang taon”

“handa ka bang magtanim ng batas sa gubat? kaya mo bang ipag utos sa mga hayop ang respeto? desidido ka bang damitan sila ng dangal at prinsipyo? determinado ka bang sugpuin ang kabangisan? nais mo bang magturo ng malasakit sa kapwa at pagkakaisa? kakayanin mo bang magpadikta sa bulong ng konsensya? gusto mo ba talagang makialam sa natural na takbo ng buhay - sa gubat?”

Kumain ka na ng siopao na may palamang pusa o maglakad sa bubog nang nakayapak, pero wag na wag kang susubok mag-drugs. Kung hindi mo kayang umiwas, humingi ka ng tulong sa mga magulang mo dahil alam nila kung saan ang mga murang supplier at hindi ka nila iisahan.”

THOUGHTS OF L♥VE

Here is a some good quotes about love that I have collected over a period of time and other people have sent me for my list. Feel free to send me any good quotes on love if you think they would fit in here nicely. I will be more than happy to include them.

It hurts to love someone and not be loved in return, but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.
Maybe we have to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one so that when we finally meet the right person, we will know how to be grateful for that gift.
Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, and the romance in a relationship and find out you still care for that person.
A sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.
When the door of happiness closes, another opens but often times we look so long at the closed door that we don’t see the one which has been opened for us.
The best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch and swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you’ve ever had.
It’s true that we don’t know what we’ve got until we lose it, but it’s also true that we don’t know what we’ve been missing until it arrives.
Giving someone all your love is never an assurance that they’ll love you back. Don’t expect love in return, just wait for it to grow in their heart, but if it doesn’t, be sure it grew in yours.
There are things you’d love to hear that you would never hear from the person whom you would like to hear from, but don’t be so deaf as not to hear it from the one who says it from his heart.
Never say good-bye if you still want to try, never give up if you still feel you can go on, never say you don’t love a person anymore if you can’t let go.
Love comes to those who still hope although they’ve been disappointed, to those who still believe although they’ve been betrayed, need to love those who still love although they’ve been hurt before.
It takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone and a day to love someone, but it takes a lifetime to forget someone.
Don’t go for looks, they can deceive. Don’t go for wealth, in the end it fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.
There are moments in life when you miss someone so much that you just want to pick them from your dreams and hug them for real.
Dream what you want to dream, go where you want to go, be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to all the things you want to do.
May you have enough happiness to make you sweet, enough trials to make you strong, enough sorrow to keep you human, enough hope to make you happy and enough money to buy me gifts.
Always put yourself in other’s shoes. If you feel it hurts you, it probably hurts the other person too.
A careless word may kindle strife, a cruel word may wreck a life, a timely word may level stress, a loving word may heal and bless.
The beginning of love is to let those we love be just themselves, and not twist them with our own image otherwise, we love only the reflection of ourselves we find in them.
The happiest of people don’t necessarily have the best of everything, they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.
Happiness lies for those who cry, those who hurt, those who have searched, and those who have tried, for only they can appreciate the importance of people who have touched their lives.
Love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss and ends with a tear.
The brightest future will always be based on a forgotten past, you can’t go on well in life until you let go of your past failures and heartaches.
When you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. Live your life so that when you die, you’re the one who is smiling and everyone around you is crying.
Love is an unusual game. There are either two winners or none. If I could reinvent the alphabet, I would put U and I together.
Love doesn’t make the world go ’round, it makes the ride worthwhile.
Love is what makes two people sit in the middle of a bench when there’s plenty of room at both ends.
The most important thing a father can do for his children is to love their mother.